As a person with limited experience in RL BDSM experiences, I think these a extremely important. It is all about negotiation, safety and trust.
10 Golden Rules for BDSM Negotiations
Yes #6!! I always say that my position as a Dominant is earned anyways.
Cannot tell you how much I’ve come across the “if you were a TRUE submissive you’d….”
Fuck everything about that. Being a sub does not mean I’m submissive to EVERYONE or on EVERYTHING.
(via fineshrinetome)